Do Something That Builds You Up While Job Hunting - Personal Branding Blog - Stand Out In Your Career

Do Something That Builds You Up While Job Hunting - Personal Branding Blog - Stand Out In Your Career A couple years ago, I lost a dream job in a horrid way. Id spent years networking and branding myself for the opportunity and had just gotten it. Then, shortly after I started, the companys fortunes went downhill and my co-workers and I endured an agonizing, demoralizing few months until we were laid off. It was devastating. This was something Id dreamed about and worked incredibly hard for, and it was snatched out of my hands by forces beyond my control. Suddenly, I had to start my  job hunt all over again when I was already demoralized from working in a company that was racing downhill. A bunch of other friends of mine have been in similar situations in recent months. One also lost a hard-won job at a dream company because  her companys  business went downhill. Another, about to graduate with his MBA, had to jump back into job hunting after the start-up he was working at part-time reluctantly concluded that they couldnt  get the funding to bring him on full-time Finding yourself back on the market unexpectedly is really stressful and demoralizing.   But  when you lose a job, you have to get back out there right away.   No matter how much you want to, you simply cannot spend all your time curled up on your couch watching Greys Anatomy with an increasingly cuddle-resistant cat!  Nor surfing the internet or any other ways people cope. So off to networking events you go. Then, you fill out job applications, go on interviews and beg everyone you know for help. And when youre already feeling  down you hear No a lot.   And all the while, your nest egg is ticking towards empty.   The worst part of this is that  no matter how down you feel, you have to go into each interview and networking event with a smile and a positive attitude! Unsurprisingly,  unexpected job-hunting  feels really depressing. Which is why its so important to keep your personal branding going even when you have a job you like so if the worst happens, you  dont have to start from scratch. However, whether  or not youve kept up your personal branding, throwing yourself back into a job-hunt takes a lot out of you. So when you find yourself in that position, even if youre short on money, its absolutely essential to find a way to do activities  that make you feel good about yourself. For me, that was horseback riding. Even when I was carefully watching my money, I kept a partial lease on a horse at a nearby stable.  Regularily, I would head  over to the ranch, saddle up Jet and head out for a run on the trails.    I always came back feeling much better. Another friend of mine, embroiled in a tough job hunt, kept his spirits up by playing a sport hes incredible at, and traveling to regional tournaments around the US where he could compete at an elite level.     Hed get there the cheapest way possible, sleep on the floor of a friends house and do everything he could to keep his costs down, but hed still go.* For both of us, those activities  were essential parts of our job-hunting strategy. We were able to keep going to  networking events and keeping our spirits up for interviews because we consistantly had something that we did well at and that forced us to think positively for a while. And thats so essential because if you have to put your best self on display after a discouraging job loss you need to feel positive about yourself as well. So dont throw yourself into your job hunt and forget about everything else that makes you happy in life. Youll do better in your job-hunt if you get a regular emotional boost even if you have to be creative to figure out ways to make that thing you enjoy happen. *Incidentally, my friend  was offered a job he really wanted less than a week after he finished highly in a Nationals competition for his hobby. Perhaps a coincidence, but the effort he put into preparing for this  competition and then the resulting emotional high probably helped! Author: Katie Konrath  blogs about creativity, innovation and “ideas so fresh… they should be slapped” at  www.getfreshminds.com.   She works for leading innovation company,  Ideas To Go.